The "Eye-F*&@!"

Okay as mentioned in previous blog entries the "eye f*&@" is a another termed used by my friend to describe flirting. He told me I needed to do more of it and so i did tonight. I guess i should describe the "eye f*&*" : well it's really like i said flirting eyes. You look intensely at the person till they give eye contact. You do the "smile with your eyes a la Tyra Banks sayings" then look away and smile. and then continuously try it until you get a reaction from the dude. In my practice times, i've practiced on friend's husbands or co-workers and they have come up to me and said "Gail... i don't know what you're doing but stop" or "stop looking at me like that you're making me feel weird" apparently those are the reactions i should get from friends but if i was to do it to a guy i'm trying to snag then either a flirt back or some kind of acknowledgment like a smile might occur. but yes that is the "eye-f@#$"

Here's my story for tonight:
Volleyball is always my release. I play because I love it, I play because it's one more thing that makes me happy. Tonight I played and a familiar face was there. A dude I used to play with maybe two years ago. We met at various open gyms and it is sort of just like a "hey! how you doing!?" type friendship. I probably wouldn't even call it a friendship because we just know each other, we don't hang out or anything like that.

anyways so tonight at volleyball it was really good to see him. he's cute. very put together looking guy. my friend Vicky was there along with my brother and because I haven't seen Vicky in a long time she asked me how the "eye f*$!@" was going. i told her i hadn't had the time and she said "well that guy over there looks like potential" and sure enough she was pointing to the guy that i know. The sad thing about this is that i forgot his name!!! how bad am i! he remembers my name though, he automatically came up and said "hey gail, long time no see!" So already I felt bad. But okay so i decided to do what Vicky said and play.... i tried the flirting eyes, the smile then look aways... hahaa!! totally felt silly but later felt even more weird when he started doing it back!

so this dude, let's call him X for the sake of over using the word dude because I already use it to much as it is, basically did the same thing. it was like the hot and cold game you know? like making the person think they're interested then give them attitude showing them you aren't interested. it was funny, both of us were playing this game yet, sorry to disappoint, but no one made a move. It did feel nice though. As i type i have this stupid grin on my face, it's weird, funny, and crazy all at the same time. but yes it ended there just the game. i thought this was wroth blogging just because it's making me giggle at how this system works, and not to add i was complaining about this part of my life in my last blog. hehehe maybe it was sign letting me know I'll be okay. Alright then... Well this it no more to say.

LOL... do u have ideas about how to "eye-f*#%"... ?? please share... it'll be interested to see what y'all come up with.

until next post.